I am not able to sleep, as result I am writing this post. This blog has been ditched for quite long.
I am not sure whether it is right to write this post, because I have no idea whether I am correct or not. But anyway, it is just my thought so I want to speak it up.
I am wondering of what do girls think about love? One thing that shot into my mind is that girls think love as what is written in the novel, fairy tale and dramas (korean, japanese, taiwan, china, singapore and hongkong)
In fact, in the real life, I have never seen love story realised as in novel or dramas. One thing for sure that what will girls have on their mind when they finish watching drama must be "why my bf not like that ah? why is that girl so lucky? woahh... that girl and his bf ate at restaurant in paris with Eiffel Tower as their background view. I wish to become like her because his bf gave him car, condo, diamond ring and 'some' other gifts"
All those are nothing but a feeling of envy when his bf have not done anything like that to her before.
From envying, they will move on to the next stage.... Expecting. After they envied, they will expect the bf will do the same thing as what they have watched on the movie, listened from the friends and read from novels. There are two types of expectation that girls have :
1. Expecting, but do not want to say
2. Expecting and say it that they want this and they want that
Expectation no 2 will cause problems to bf if he is not able to realised her wish. She will nag and nag and nag until bf feel tired. The problem with the expectation no 2 is that she is not making bf become his ownself. Bf realise her wishes, that is because he was expected and is informed on what he should do to make gf happy. Well, that is not him, and it is actually the girls who make herself happy.
Expectation no 1 is a bit better, we are not nagged simply because they do not speak what they wish. Apart from that, if we have done something that girls are expecting without girls telling us what to do, we have done it because it is from our ownself will not girls' will. Eventually, girls are funny. When they have waited too long for the expectation to be realised, they will become expectation no 2, telling his bf what she wants.
What I was trying to say in this post is that, please do not expect too much and go back to real life. When you start expecting, remind on yourself how you love your bf for the first time and why you say yes when your bf asked you to be his gf.
If let's say that you accept your bf because you expect him to realise your fairy tale wishes. It is just wrong. You must accept him because what he has done to you NOT what he will do to you.
I am not a girl, so I have no right to say what they are thinking. This little piece of my mind is just based on my analysis towards the evidences. My analysis could be right and could be wrong.
NOTE : This post is not intended to address specific person
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